Jesse_tpfi (29-06-12)
My two cents either you are with me 100 percent or fuck right of no gaffing about not wanting to stir nothing.
She would have to go Nuff said.
GEORGE (21-01-20)
Absolutely understandable, it's a given that our partners support US.
Absolutely not. Again, you shouldn't have to say anything, she should be backing you up automatically.Am i being selfish asking my missus just to tell her friends they are wrong?
HOWEVER.. having just ended 13yrs of marriage I've been around the block enough to say that what SHOULD be and what WILL be are two very different things.
I'm TOTALLY on your side here man. I'm telling you, if one of my friends ever so much as accused me of thieveing from them, they wouldn't be m friend any longer because if they don't know me well enough to know that I'm just not like that, then they obviously don't know me very well at all.
Aside from that, I honestly would be more suspicious of THEM for even thinking along those lines. Why would they? Do THEY steal from their friends? Is that why they suspect you of being of such low morality a they are?
Who knows.. what I do know is that I'm not interested in friends who think I'm a piece of shit thief.
My wife has, many times over the years, been totally disloyal towards me in other circumstances. Other times she backed me. I'm dissattisfied that she never backed me ALL the time.. but she's only human and, like me, and you, can't get it 100% right 100% of the time.
She's fucking up right now according to the unwritten book of relationships. I'm aware of that.. you're aware of that.. but is SHE aware of that unwritten code?
I think you and I will both agree that she fucking well SHOULD be.. but bless her.. she's finding it near impossible to handle the sheer level of akwardness that this is putting her under.
I don't know how to fix your situation.. but if things were as simple as that in my life and that was happening to me.. and after 13yrs of marriage experience.. I'd A) go around to that house again and tell him AND his woman to go and fuck themselves and to stay well away from me thus forth and ten B) I'd tell my mrs that she has to make her choices about who she'll be carrying on seeing for the next few months.
I don't believe that's selfish.. she clearly wants to have HER feelings considered by you, no? I think you're just saying something like "Ok, fine mrs.. you keep seeing them.. but that makes it very difficult for me to see you as a friend right now, because you're siding with my enemies, and I'm hurt that your loyalties are no stronger towards me than they are towards your other friends.. and I deserve better than that from any partner".
What about YOUR needs.. since someone else is bringing their needs to the table for you to consider?
No no no.. that's not selfish my friend.. this is NEGOTIATING. And you have quite a bit to negotiate with if this woman loves you. She may yet see the error of her ways.. so whatever you do, try and avoid splitting up over a pair of cunts who call you a theif.
Sorry.. whittling on.. those are just my thoughts not an exact science.
Last edited by Tabbatha; 29-06-12 at 02:30 PM.
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GEORGE (21-01-20), Jesse_tpfi (29-06-12), urban grower (29-06-12)
Jesse_tpfi (29-06-12), Tabbatha (29-06-12)
I've already said this until i was blue in the face. I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM
she just makes out im being unrealistic (as there friends with her family) and that im being unreasonable
Sorry mate i just havn't got anyone i can talk to about it.
GEORGE (21-01-20)
I agree with that 100% scobie.
GEORGE (21-01-20), Jesse_tpfi (29-06-12)
Good spot Tabbs. Yeah if he's accusing you of stealing I'd be awfully protective of your smoke when hes around.
They don't know you grow do they? Does your misses? Fuck this could turn into a royal shit storm if your not careful mate.
Jesse_tpfi (29-06-12), Tabbatha (29-06-12)
Is she a young'un mate?
I had similar shite from a young bird who I lived with many moons ago. Her mates were everything and blokes always came second. There was never a day that passed where at least one tart came knocking with her entourage of kids for a cuppa, (that usually lasted several hours).
It didn't take me long to realise she'd never change and that I had to hit the road.
GEORGE (21-01-20), Jesse_tpfi (29-06-12)
Jesse_tpfi (29-06-12), Tabbatha (29-06-12)
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